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Like a Virgin

Most people feel nervous about their first time. Common fears include whether it will hurt, if the woman will bleed, if sex will change things...

The wetter the better

Many people think that lube is something you only need to use if you're too dry down below...

Man Up!

You might think that men are the ones who need to be talked into using condoms, but women can be just as bad...

Slip Into Something Comfortable

Condoms and female condoms are the only forms of contraception that also protect against STIs...

No Glove No Love

While some men are sensible enough to carry and use condoms, others will try to persuade you to have sex without one...

Right for the Night

Relationships can be great but sometimes, you're not in that space...

Come Again?

An orgasm is the body's way of rewarding us for sex. However, if you're sleepy, unfit, have a poor diet, drink, smoke or take drugs...

Kama Sutra for Beginners

Different sex positions have different effects. While you could have sex in the same way every time...

From XXX to ZZZ

One of the most common letters sent to problem pages is, 'How can I keep the spice alive in my relationship?'...

More Than a Bromance

There's no golden rule of gay sex, any more than there is with straight sex...

Woman on Woman

There's no golden rule of lesbian sex, any more than there is with straight sex...

Let's Talk About Sex

If you ever read agony aunt columns, there's one piece of advice that you're sure to see - 'communicate'...

Blow His Mind

Very few men will complain about getting a blow job, no matter how unskilled you may think you are...

Get Down On It

Oral sex tends to rank highly when women are asked about the best ways to make them come...

A Helping Hand

While the humble hand job is often eschewed in favour of oral or penetrative sex, there's no reason it can't be just as satisfying...

A Finger of Fun...

While some people are perfectly happy with 'vanilla' sex - just the basics - many people are curious about kink...

Mixing It Up

Most couples only have sex in three different sex positions, which can sometimes lead to getting in a rut...

Rub Each Other the Right Way

Sensual massage is a skill that's well worth learning...

OMG!

The G-spot is one of the media's favourite erogenous zones. Its existence has been questioned more times than the Lock Ness Monster...

50 Shades of Play

While some people are perfectly happy with 'vanilla' sex - just the basics - many people are curious about kink...

Playtime for Adults

Sex toys are now in more bedrooms than ever before but some people find the idea of using them threatening...

Porn Myths Exposed

Many people form their first impressions of sex from porn...

Things that Make You Go Oooh

Toys are an increasingly common part of people's sex lives nowadays...

Sex, Love and Blue Balls

Most people are too shy to talk about sex honestly. We've busted some of the most common myths to bring you...

Position Impossible?

While old favourites like missionary and doggie style can be great fun, sometimes it's good to mix things up...

Body Basics for Him

The better you know your body, the more pleasure it can give you...

Body Basics for Her

The better you know your body, the more fun you can have...

Sex and Disability

Many people make assumptions about sex and disability that are far from accurate...

Sex and Pregnancy

Sex and pregnancy is often seen as a taboo subject - somewhat ironically given how pregnancy generally happens...

Does My Bum Look Big in This?

Every woman feels insecure about something, no matter how confident she may seem...

This Never Usually Happens...

Everyone has insecurities and 'manning up' doesn't mean you have to deny your feelings...

STI's - All the Facts

Find out about Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI's) - symptoms and treatment...

Safe Sex Is Good Sex

Learn about different types of contraception to help have happy and safe sex...

“You just don't turn me on.”

Sex can be rife with insecurities, particularly given the pressure that women are put under to look 'perfect'...

Shying Away From Sex?

It's easy to assume that everyone is confident in the bedroom except for you, but in reality...

Timing is Everything

Everyone is ready for sex at a different stage and only you can know if it's right for you...

Yes But No But...

Great sex isn't about agreeing to everything your partner wants. Different people like different things...

Toxic Toys

Sex toys can be a great addition to your sex life but just because something is on sale, doesn't mean it's safe...

What Goes Up Must Come Down

While it's generally accepted that women may struggle with orgasm, men are often expected...

Easy Come, Easy Go

Hollywood tends to depict orgasm as easy, mutual and simultaneous. In reality, many women struggle to reach climax...

Plenty More Fish in the Sea

Almost everyone experiences heartbreak at some point in their lives...

The Sex Life of Your Dreams?

Almost everyone has sexual fantasies of some description, from seeing a lover in stockings and suspenders...

A Whole Lotta Love

Romancing a lover tends to come naturally in the early days but as time goes on, it's easy to take each other for granted...

“I love you more than life itself”

It's easy to assume sexual honesty is just about being faithful to your partner and telling the truth...

Naughty But Nice

Now, more than ever before, there's a wealth of erotic material available to enjoy...

Not Tonight, Dear

Libido mismatch is one of the most common problems flooding agony aunt's inboxes...

Set Yourself Free

Almost everyone has some baggage but no matter what happened in your past, you control your future...